In this first English translation of the best-known work of one of the world’s leading psychoanalysts, your friends and neighbors are on the couch. Gérard Pommier brings together a number of case studies of his male and female patients whose sexual activities are bound in aggressive behavior, and suggests ways in which their anger might be understood and focused to a positive end. Why violence (verbal or physical) is so often a precondition for sexual enjoyment is what Pommier explores in this deeply enlightening and powerfully disturbing book.

Erotic Anger: A User’s Manual is firmly grounded in the sexuality of real men and women. No, these are not tales told in the locker-room, recounting a stirring bit of foreplay that led to a particularly satisfying sexual encounter. Nor are the case studies presented by Pommier stories of simple problems or perfect cures. Rather, they are a return to the classic problems faced by Freud himself in his clinical practice—impotence, premature ejaculation, and compulsive masturbation-in which we see the rawness of fantasies and dreams uncensored.

In a voice that is ironic but elegant, aphoristic, cutting, and condensed, Pommier articulates the tortuous path of discovery on which his patients are embarked. Without moralizing or shirking the question of the ethical, his book brings us face to face with the intertwining of desire and aggression, and with the complex clinical, theoretical, and practical issues they involve.

$25.50 paper ISBN 978-0-8166-3530-6
$70.50 cloth ISBN 978-0-8166-3529-0
240 pages, 5 7/8 x 9, 2001